In recent class discussion we talked about socially
acceptable terms for different races. This is an uncomfortable subject for me,
mostly because I’m an ignorant small town white girl, but also because in my
opinion discussing race terminology is further acknowledging racial separation.
I don’t understand why it’s culturally accepted to call an East
Indian person “brown” or a Caucasian person “white”, but it’s faux paux to call
an African American person “black”. You have to refer to them as “person of
colour” or “African American”, even though we are all technically a colour, we
are all technically persons and we don’t refer to Caucasian people as
“Caucasian American”. On the opposite side of the same coin it’s offensive to
call a person of colour “coloured” because it touches too closely on a time of
segregation. Why is it offensive to call a person from Pakistan “Paki” but not
to call a person from Australia “Aussie”? Another term I don’t understand being
offensive is “mulatto”, which to me sounds like a delicious drink I’d order at
Starbucks rather than being something hateful.
“I’ll have a Grande caramel mulatto, extra whip, please”
I brought the topic up to my roommate who refers to herself
as south Asian. She told me a story about how in her first few months of living
in Canada she was trying to cross the road on a cross-walk where a car had
stopped at the designated stop sign waiting for her. In her country cars have
the right-of-way on the road so she automatically stopped to wait for the car
to pass when a strangers told questioned her and said “why are you stopped? Pedestrians
have the right of way”. She was immediately flustered and angry thinking that
this stranger had called a derogatory term.
I’m sure if we stopped telling people certain words are bad,
they would lose their meaning and become non-existent or even take on a
completely different meaning like in the case of the following word that is common place:
Gyp
informal
verb
1 cheat or swindle (someone).
"Man, five
dollars for a candy bar? What a gyp!"
This term is originated from the word Gypsy, but nobody in
this day would make that conclusion because the word has lost meaning. This is
why I think the action of simply talking about race is reinforcing the separation
of different racial group.
http://www.cracked.com/article_16967_8-racist-words-you-use-every-day.html#ixzz3IuhAY6py